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💌 SOWM Digest 042 | Father's Day Edition
The one where we acknowledge the dads, I guess*!
Father’s Day kind of snuck up on me this year. (Like, wasn’t it just Mother’s Day?)
Here we are, in the thick of school wrap-ups, summer schedule shuffles, shifting logistics, a rabid must-make-the-most-of-it energy and, at least in my case, a flurry of birthday parties (including for my own two June babies). And now we’re staring down another “special” day. 👀
*To be clear: I love the dads in my life. My husband, my own father, my brothers, my friends who are dads… they all deserve to be celebrated!
But I can’t ignore how often the mental load of planning all of the above — sometimes even our very own “special days” — falls to moms. Or, when we inevitably feel like we’re falling short, the shame and guilt that show up right on cue. 🙋♀️
So if this weekend finds you coordinating gifts, texting reminders, or just trying to keep your household afloat, I see you. (I am you.)
And if you find yourself screaming into the void, well… now stop that!

Come scream *in community* inside the Society of Working Moms, where the invisible load is highly visible and there’s always a seat at our table! 👭
Member Recs
The good stuff, as touted inside the Slack community!
GOODS — this case for your AirPods, this electrolyte add-in to stay hydrated, this voice-controlled/schedulable/WiFi-enabled smart plug for your appliances, this LCD tablet for long car rides, this magnetized color-by-number kit, these kids’ plastic knock-off Birks, these kids’ waterproof hiking sandals, and this styling wand for those flyaways.
RESOURCES — this AI calendar assistant, this employment attorney (and twin mom!) focused on women’s rights at work, this forthcoming app for real-time and voice-based parenting support, and this conference tool/hack to simplify connecting.
MEDIA — this obit-centric TikTok account about losing (and loving) life, this Apple TV+ show about having (and then losing) it all, and this article about “loud living” to redefine workplace boundaries.
Upcoming Events
* = member-led session
🤗 = free & open to the public
🔒️ = members only
TOMORROW, Saturday, 6/14 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM PDT
SOWM IRL: Seattle Moms(+) Meetup *🤗
Tuesday, 6/17 @ 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM CT
The Science of Well-Being for Parents - Module 2 Discussion *🔒️
Wednesday, 6/18 @ 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM CT
Coaching Convo: When Work Doesn’t Fit Anymore (with Jess) 🔒️
Thursday, 6/19 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CT
Weekly Job Seeker Circle *🔒️
Tuesday, 6/24 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CT
Author Chat: Ruthie Ackerman, The Mother Code 🤗
Wednesday, 6/25 @ 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM CT
Coaching Convo: The Next Chapter — What Do You Want? (with Jess) 🔒️
Thursday, 6/26 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CT
Weekly Job Seeker Circle *🔒️
Open Roles & Opportunities
Share your leads for parent-friendly roles by replying to this email and we’ll post in our job board channel!
Extra good karma for warm leads (♨️) or roles for which you’re the hiring manager (🔥)!
🔥 Sr. Digital Marketing Analyst @ MashMetrics (remote, PT) (Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Group Financial Controller @ Songtrdr (remote) (Not posted yet / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Group Financial Controller @ Songtrdr (remote) (Not posted yet / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Financial Operations Manager @ Songtrdr (remote) (Not posted yet / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Senior Tax Analyst @ Songtrdr (remote) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Fractional Medical Partnerships Lead @ The Parent Collective (remote, PT) (Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Operations Consultant & Strategist @ Magical Teams (remote, PT) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Operations Specialist & Coordinator @ Magical Teams (remote, PT) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
Director of Communications @ Scale Venture Partners (Bay Area) (LI post / Slack thread🔒️)
♨️ Paid Social Strategist @ Approach Marketing (remote, PT) (Slack thread🔒️)
Operations & HR Team Member @ Food Empowerment Project (remote - CA preferred) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
Chief of Staff @ Seven Starling (remote) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
Vice President, Communications and External Affairs @ Institute for Women’s Policy Research (DC) (JD / Slack thread🔒️)
Slack Sampler Platter
Just a sampling of our lovely and lively chat from the last ~2 weeks!
1yo separation anxiety
Is this perimenopause?
Prepping a big-sis-to-be
SOS — 4mo sleep regression
Suddenly wanting more kids at 46
How to shade match your makeup?
Working with federal contracts vs. grants
How are we all budgeting for our own PD?
Getting burnt out; considering consulting?
How to talk to manager about transitioning to PT?
Coming out of the newborn phase and so happy about it!
Putting together a schedule after pulling a kid from daycare
What to do when your provider no longer accepts your insurance?!
SOWM Community News
Welcome to our newest members 👋 Abby J., Jocelyn M., and Kaylin A.!
And welcome to our newest baby member, Odal! 👶
Our next IRL event is tomorrow morning for our Seattle area moms!
Members can join the new #geo_seattle🔒️ channel for all things Seattle-area momming/working!
Reminder that there’s also #geo_boston🔒️, #geo_chicago🔒️, #geo_denver🔒️, #geo_socal🔒️, #geo_nyc🔒️, #geo_texas🔒️, and #geo_twin-cities🔒️!
We are so excited for our next No-Stakes Book Club author chat on June 24 with the hilarious Ruthie Ackerman, author of The Mother Code!
Whether you’ve read/listened to the whole book or are simply interested in the themes (grief, loss, heredity, mental health, infertility, uncertainty, humor) please do join us!
Q3 books (The Crucial Years) will be sent out to those who ordered them by next week (and the Q4 title will also be announced then)! 🙌
Revisit last week’s coaching topic, “redefining enough,” here🔒️!
Still working on the new onboarding flow, with the help of a new little bot friend and some more video tutes. THANKS for your patience; the bot is taking me longer than I anticipated. #NotACoder (I hope it’s worth it! 🤪)
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